Dysfunctional Power Struggle
Aggressor: Don't listen to HER! She is only SAYING I did that to seek attention.
Opposite side, rarely heard: Don't listen to HIM. He is only SAYING “don't listen to her,” to avoid having any unwanted attention focused on him.
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Going Around in Dysfunctional Circles
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Infinite Looping the Dysfunctional Way
If you don't speak up about your mockers, ridiculers and abusers, you deserve what you get for failing to do so and not holding them accountable AND if you DO speak up, you deserve what you're getting for whining, bitching, and complaining, and blaming (which ... More>
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American NRA Comes out for Forced Treatment for the Mentally Ill
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They believe this should be done BEFORE “they” go out and buy guns as it is the mentally ill who are the problem and not the availability of weapons. They also want the government to leave alone all of those who want the right to have military assault style weapons kept in their own homes, without ... More>
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Entrenched Tautological Dysfunction
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This is both taught and learned in a infinitely repeated process.
The “normal” people show their contempt and disdain for me, and for those like me, for failing to accept the violation of my personal boundaries as a “normal" group behaviour and therefore to be “overlooked” and excused BECAUSE they ... More>
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Changing Your Understanding of Cause and Effect
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By Patricia Lefave, Monophrenic
This is extremely common dysfunctional behaviour as performed by groups, which, when taken to extremes, as done by degrees, becomes group bullying, gang behaviour, the hunt for the genetic “defective” and even “ethic cleansing.”
The standard themes of ... More>
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In Dysfunctional Relating
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By Patricia Lefave, Monophrenic
As I have said before dysfunctional relating “works” in a way as long as everyone in the relating style accepts and performs in his or her assigned ROLES. These may be misery-producing relationships but they have the value of being FAMILIAR which is why most people ... More>
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The Trees of the Forest
I live in a Community Full of Trees who have turned to each other and agreed together that there is no Forest. I am the only one, it seems, who can see a Forest. I perceived this Forest to exist also while in the Home Wood. The Trees in the Home Wood perceived my perception of them as warped and ridiculous, and my 'claim' that I saw those Trees as nothing but a bid for attention.
That is how the Trees know that I am stupid and/or crazy you see. That and the fact that all the Trees know that reality, is that, which is defined by majority vote. What the Majority votes into existence is obviously what is normal. What the majority vote against is abnormal. So there is no “Forest.” So say the Trees.
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Speculation
What would have happened if Neanderthal, certain that he represented all that was right, normal and complete in creation/evolution, had decided, and had the capability to; 'fix,’ modify and control Cro Magnon for his own good?
Would those of us with taller foreheads been understood to be suffering from severe birth defects and assumed to be too stupid to know it?
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YOUR GATEWAY TO
THE SCIENTIFIC STUDY OF GANGING UP
"A mobbing is like a tornado spun off from a spring rainstorm
- a fervent, collective assault that escalates from
an ordinary conflict."
-Kenneth Westhues
qtd. in "Mob Rule"
by John Gravois
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“It is important for human beings to feel popular and well liked amongst a large group of human beings that we don’t really care for at all.”
Jerry Seinfeld
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Schizophrenic Zen
The people who are talking about us exclude THEMSELVES from the identification process regarding the people who we “think” are talking about us. These are the same people who lower their eyes and talk out of the sides of their mouths as the means of rendering themselves invisible and inaudible when talking about us, from one to ten feet away. Having achieved this state of being through the use of the cloak of invisibility and the cone of silence, they then know they cannot be the people doing all the talking. They think it must be awful to have a disease that causes us to think people are talking about us and they are sure glad they don’t have an illness like that.
Don’t laugh. They will help us if you do.
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