Dysfunctional Realities




Regarding the 'Imbalance'

I believe there
IS an imbalance but it is not in the brain chemistry. It is in the psycho spiritual or metaphysical realm of relating. Human beings tend to protect and defend dysfunctional values and boundary violating behaviour as though their lives depended upon it. We love 'the devil we know' simply because we are used to it. It takes effort to change that and we will not win any popularity contests by doing it. We are so accustomed to having how we all LOOK and SOUND to 'others' as the top priority, defined as 'normal,' that we object to anyone who tries to state openly that how we ARE is twisted and self destructive. So rather than hear the truth, the majority engage in a contest with those 'others' who are 'not like us'  believing that the only way to preserve the group madness we know and love is to dominate all the 'others' who are as mad as we are for doing exactly the same thing!


 
 

“It is important for human beings to feel popular and well liked amongst a large group of human beings that we don’t really care for at all.”

Jerry Seinfeld

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On People who Think They are Jesus 09/08/2010

By Patricia Lefave, Monophrenic

 One of the things Jesus said when talking about the failure to understand was this: 

a.  “My words do no work in you.”  

Another was,

b. “There is a gulf between us I cannot cross.”

 And,
c.  “What is this generation like? Like children calling to each other across the town square, “we played a song for you but you wouldn't sing!

Also that one said,
d.  "My words require no interpretation from anyone."
and also

e. When he asked questions, the authorities of his day did not want to answer (from where does YOUR authority come?) He responded, to their silence with, “well then, neither will I tell you.” (Where his ‘authority’ to speak came from)

Also said by Jesus who thought he was Jesus,
f.  ‘For having ears to hear, they hear not.’
 

g.   “Ye are as sleep walkers...”

 

 

The people of his day could not make any sense of what he was saying you see. They thought he was crazy or possessed by demons. If he was here today, I don't doubt that an ACT team would show up at the carpentry shop after the neighbours began talking about how 'weird' he was and if he then stated that his neighbours had started treating him strangely and were talking about him behind his back, or even right in front of him, like he wasn't there, the police would be picking him up and taking him for a nice visit to 'the quiet room.' There the normal people would not have to be upset by having a whack job sitting with them in the emergency department, loudly proclaiming he was not really ill.

Once that 'intervention' was under way, it really would not matter what he said as none of it would make sense to those who have already made their own kind of 'sense' of him and the situation before he was ever brought there. The 'gulf between them' then, and after that, would just grow to universal proportions. Of course Jesus would already have known that as that sort of thing was exactly what he was talking about.

The irony of this of course is that many of the normal people go to the churches dedicated to his way of thinking and worship this one as the Son of God, but I think if he was actually here, just being, right now, who he was then, they would be the first  ones calling the psychiatric hospital for help. Then they would go back to their places of worship together and talk out loud to an invisible being they have never seen but they just "know" is there, despite any 'real' evidence to the contrary. They would ask that One to please help Jesus get well; Jesus who would by then be talking out loud in the 'intensive care' unit, to the same invisible being and maybe even thinking that God is talking to him. Of course that's the problem isn't it? You can talk to an invisible being, but if you believe the invisible being talks to YOU, then you're crazy. It is also about WHERE you are, when you are talking to the invisible One. Can you see the tautology in that? We who get trapped within it do and we often even SAY so; but of course, you 'normal' people don't know what it means and so to defend your ignorance and the status quo you must have it mean NOTHING.

There is one very important point here that I think is lost on most people.

Why do the normal people, as they define themselves, base their faith on the teachings of someone that most of them would have locked up as obviously mad today? He was even called mad and possessed then. What makes you think you are so different now, from the people back then?  Don't make the mistake of thinking that I am trying to convince you that Jesus was just crazy. It is quite the opposite. I am trying to show you that what you CALL crazy has something to do with context and also trying to show you that your consensus realities as more about closing ranks to defend the pack (the groupthink) than they are about really identifying reality in all its complexity. 

One of the common things dysfunctional people do as part of the defence of the dysfunction is to make an automatic assumption that if THEY can't “make sense”' of something the “unusual” other is saying, it can ONLY mean that what they don't understand cannot have any sense in it and/or the 'other' person does not make sense.

It is not routinely assumed that the problem is something lacking in either the amount, or type, of information, or that outright lies are being told by some, or that the senselessness may be in the dysfunctional group members.   

Here is how I, who have been psychiatrized by you 'modern' people today, might put it differently to how Jesus said it back then. Let me now modernize this for you and 'interpret' it in terms of the current language, psychiatrese: 

a.  “No matter what I say, or how I say it, nothing penetrates your thick skulls.” 

“Though we are using the same words we are not speaking the same language. 

b. “You are playing a tune for me and are getting all righteously indignant, contemptuous and dissing me in public because I won’t dance to it.”

c. "I am speaking English (to English speaking people) and I do not need an interpreter either, or someone to speak FOR me as if I were an idiot, or to look for bloody 'hidden meaning' where there is none." (which according to you who are looking for it means you need an anti-psychotic!)
 

d.  I cannot come over to your side of reality (the gulf between us) as your reality is NOT reality at all. It is a fantasy world you have created for yourselves and which you want to project onto me and force me, if necessary, to accept it so that the dysfunctional 'normal' will not have to see the truth about themselves. 

Jesus death represented killing the truth and burying it.


e.  If you people who are mocking me and ridiculing me for ‘thinking’ I understand more about my own life experience than you do intend to keep on keeping your silence, to save your own butts at my expense, then I will keep my silence towards you too, especially since you told me I must do so. So if you are waiting for me to talk about it to you, you are going to be waiting until hell freezes over.  Now be sure to share that and remember to laugh with your usual amusement and then DENY it.

f. 
Even though your ears are working you are psychologically deaf to what I am saying to you which is perfectly obvious. I am not the one who does not understand. YOU are.   

g. You are walking around hypnotized by your dysfunctional programming.  You are in a trance state you bloody idiots, and the biggest hypnotic suggestion keeping you in that trance is the hypnotic suggestion that we who know that, are said to be the ones who are crazy and not really conscious!”

The next time you are listening to crazy people, especially those under such great distress that they are having their minds broken down and are speaking in this symbolism, like in a waking nightmare, try really listening to it, conceptually speaking. Try assuming that the 'crazy' people who are 'not like you' are saying all the same kinds of things for a legitimate REASON, despite the packaging in which it is being delivered, and that is has nothing at all to do with faulty brain chemistry.

 

 

Reality cannot actually be defined by group consensus. That is an illusion and has much to do with making people crazy, especially those people who are, for one 'reason' or another, seen as “outside” the group “norm.”
 
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The Trees of the Forest 

I live in a Community Full of Trees who have turned to each other and agreed together that there is no Forest. I am the only one, it seems, who can see a Forest. I perceived this Forest to exist also while in the Home Wood. The Trees in the Home Wood perceived my perception of them as warped and ridiculous, and my 'claim' that I saw those Trees as nothing but a bid for attention.
That is how the Trees know that I am stupid and/or crazy you see. That and the fact that all the Trees know that reality, is that, which is defined by majority vote. What the Majority votes into existence is obviously what is normal. What the majority vote against is abnormal. So there is no “Forest.” So say the Trees.

Speculation

 

What would have happened if Neanderthal, certain that he represented all that was right, normal and complete in creation/evolution, had decided, and had the capability to; 'fix,’ modify and control Cro Magnon for his own good?

 

 

 

Would those of us with taller foreheads been understood to be suffering from severe birth defects and assumed to be too stupid to know it?

 

Dysfunctional Group Behaviour 

It seems to me it is really just the sibling rivalry, often created and encouraged by the generation before, which goes unrecognized and unresolved. Often, even at the time of our death, we are still trying to please our parents who represent the authority figures who can never be questioned, blamed or held accountable, and whom we are still trying to make see us as we really are and grant us a seal of approval we cannot get. In short, the majority  fail to detach from the fantasy parent and the family romance and finally just grow up.

YOUR GATEWAY TO

THE SCIENTIFIC STUDY OF GANGING UP
"A mobbing is like a tornado spun off from a spring rainstorm
- a fervent, collective assault that escalates from
an ordinary conflict."
-Kenneth Westhues
qtd. in "Mob Rule"
by John Gravois

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