Dysfunctional Realities


Regarding the 'Imbalance'

I believe there
IS an imbalance but it is not in the brain chemistry. It is in the psycho spiritual or metaphysical realm of relating. Human beings tend to protect and defend dysfunctional values and boundary violating behaviour as though their lives depended upon it. We love 'the devil we know' simply because we are used to it. It takes effort to change that and we will not win any popularity contests by doing it. We are so accustomed to having how we all LOOK and SOUND to 'others' as the top priority, defined as 'normal,' that we object to anyone who tries to state openly that how we ARE is twisted and self destructive. So rather than hear the truth, the majority engage in a contest with those 'others' who are 'not like us'  believing that the only way to preserve the group madness we know and love is to dominate all the 'others' who are as mad as we are for doing exactly the same thing!

Dysfunctional Power Struggle

Aggressor: Don't listen to HER! She is only SAYING I did that to seek attention.

Opposite side, rarely heard: Don't listen to HIM. He is only SAYING “don't listen to her,” to avoid having any unwanted attention focused on him.

The Red Grass Society

What is Dysfunctional Group Relating Like?

Well... it is kind of like when someone "normal' decides they are going to just give you a little test to see

what kind of a "strange" reaction they will get from you, based on their superior knowledge of you and of life

in general. Anything can be used as it is not about "what" anyway but about WHO and when you get right

down to it is not really about who, as anyone like you really is, but rather about who as is being defined by

the group.

So someone may ask you, "what is the colour of the grass at your place?" You respond, "green" and the first

two look at each other, nudge each other, wink, and go into a whole act about trying to stifle a laugh. So you

ask, "Why are you laughing? What is so funny?

Oh, nothing they say...we aren't laughing....

(and then they look at each other knowingly again and snort some more)

Now form this point on it will not matter at ALL what you say or don't say, think or don't think, do or don't

do, and feel or don't feel. You are just a prop in the group play and in fact WERE, right from the start. There

is no reason or logic in this so don't look for it. This is group delusion being acted out in a kind of

dysfunctional bonding session. Reality has nothing at all to do with it.

For you see, what you don't know, the missing information that would allow you to make ANY kind of sense

of what this group of snorting Idiots is doing, is that they all belong to the same group and THIS group,

though actually knowing what the colour green is, and what it looks like, have been taught by their

dysfunctional leader., the one who has gained control over all of them, that in reality grass is RED, and that

only those outside their very special group don't know that which proves "those" people are inferior to the

Red Grass Society. They are not to tell any "outsiders" about the Red Grass thing as the Red Grass Society

President does not want any non co-operative defectives to have any information about the special group.

One has to be as talented as the group members in keeping the group secret about grass being red if you

want to become a member in good standing o the group which snorts at the green grass people and enjoys

the resultant benefit of bonding with those of like minds. I other words, one gets to be the snorter and not

the snortee and who with any sense of their own superiority would not want that?

Are you having trouble making sense of this? Well there you are then...that is why you are not a suitable

candidate for the Red Grass Society.


The Trees of the Forest 

I live in a Community Full of Trees who have turned to each other and agreed together that there is no Forest. I am the only one, it seems, who can see a Forest. I perceived this Forest to exist also while in the Home Wood. The Trees in the Home Wood perceived my perception of them as warped and ridiculous, and my 'claim' that I saw those Trees as nothing but a bid for attention.
That is how the Trees know that I am stupid and/or crazy you see. That and the fact that all the Trees know that reality, is that, which is defined by majority vote. What the Majority votes into existence is obviously what is normal. What the majority vote against is abnormal. So there is no “Forest.” So say the Trees.



What would have happened if Neanderthal, certain that he represented all that was right, normal and complete in creation/evolution, had decided, and had the capability to; 'fix,’ modify and control Cro Magnon for his own good?




Would those of us with taller foreheads been understood to be suffering from severe birth defects and assumed to be too stupid to know it?



"A mobbing is like a tornado spun off from a spring rainstorm
- a fervent, collective assault that escalates from
an ordinary conflict."
-Kenneth Westhues
qtd. in "Mob Rule"
by John Gravois


“It is important for human beings to feel popular and well liked amongst a large group of human beings that we don’t really care for at all.”

Jerry Seinfeld

Schizophrenic Zen

 The people who are talking about us exclude THEMSELVES from the identification process regarding the people who we “think” are talking about us.  These are the same people who lower their eyes and talk out of the sides of their mouths as the means of rendering themselves invisible and inaudible when talking about us, from one to ten feet away. Having achieved this state of being through the use of the cloak of invisibility and the cone of silence, they then know they cannot be the people doing all the talking. They think it must be awful to have a disease that causes us to think people are talking about us and they are sure glad they don’t have an illness like that.

Don’t laugh. They will help us if you do.