Dysfunctional Realities


Regarding the 'Imbalance'

I believe there
IS an imbalance but it is not in the brain chemistry. It is in the psycho spiritual or metaphysical realm of relating. Human beings tend to protect and defend dysfunctional values and boundary violating behaviour as though their lives depended upon it. We love 'the devil we know' simply because we are used to it. It takes effort to change that and we will not win any popularity contests by doing it. We are so accustomed to having how we all LOOK and SOUND to 'others' as the top priority, defined as 'normal,' that we object to anyone who tries to state openly that how we ARE is twisted and self destructive. So rather than hear the truth, the majority engage in a contest with those 'others' who are 'not like us'  believing that the only way to preserve the group madness we know and love is to dominate all the 'others' who are as mad as we are for doing exactly the same thing!

Dysfunctional Power Struggle

Aggressor: Don't listen to HER! She is only SAYING I did that to seek attention.

Opposite side, rarely heard: Don't listen to HIM. He is only SAYING “don't listen to her,” to avoid having any unwanted attention focused on him.

Attribution Error

The dysfunctional "normal" treat their group "inferior subject" as if s/he could not see, hear or understand the perfectly obvious. This is called delusional reversal and projection in THE GROUP. This reality reversal can be generated by one person using "covert ops," misdirection and disinformation to control a whole group, used to control the individual's target of choice.

Once done, everything the target thinks, says or does must be "interpreted" in ways which will support the group and the premise of thought present at the STARTING POINT. This is so that the group members will not have to see or hear THEMSELVES in the way that their targeted "inferior" ALREADY does. For otherwise the "superiors" would be in danger of becoming what they already are and which they avoid knowing by projection, for NO ONE (almost "no one" anyway...anyway) must be blamed.

Now remember...to maintain the dysfunctional group status quo be sure to pathologize THIS statement as well, ASAP to maintain the group state AND to keep me right where I am...(an estian concept also and the estian definition of "help." )

Avoiding Blame as a Whole Group which Closes Ranks to Do So

Not unlike a "Beast" -- (with Many Heads- a.k.a. The "Hive Mind")

Is this the driving force behind defining the Individuals whom "we" target as "sick" and in need of "help" often for seeing "Us" as "we" are, but which "we" are trying to hide?

Is it about avoiding blame as a whole group?

"Don't listen to HER, claiming that "we" have done something to HER!. She's "just seeking attention.."( for somehow that "really" you have NOT done?) I have noticed that misdirection is a common part of the dysfunctional magic performed by many of those who are avoiding having any attention focused on them.....hmmmmm...

You who are on the receiving end of a group/mob experience, KNOW this. For as is said in my own protagonist's special training and in It's jargon, "Reality is that which we experience. It is NOT defined by group consensus.

The easiest people for the primary controllers to control are the arrogant ones who are all "certain that they know" what they, in fact, don't understand at all. For these ones can be manipulated to co-operate with the controller's agenda and also can be counted on to hide the truth about it all to save themselves.

To that end, no one admits to anything, apologizes for it or makes amends. For to do so, would be to see THEMSELVES in the role of the one onto whom they project, usually selected because these are the ones who will try to tell them something they really don't want to hear...and with the dysfunctional "normal" there are only two sides to reality; winners/losers, superior/inferior, controllers/controlled. That is because with the dysfunctional "normal" equal and different with good boundaries is not even an option as that is HOW they think. They have a "right" to control you and if you have a problem with that or object to it then the problem can ONLY be in YOU for objecting to their attempts to control as in their way of thinking, they are always right and therefore it is your objection that is just ANOTHER thing wrong with YOU. It HAS to be as THAT IS the "game," and IT IS the ONLY game they know how to "play." these gamers always choose between two sides of Hell and cannot be told it is their CHOICE to do so that makes no sense. If you say that, the next line from them is , "So YOU are having trouble making sense of things are you?" Because the problem always has to be IN YOU. It is NEVER in them. So no matter what you say, or don't say, it is mostly irrelevant, as no one is listening to logic anyway. Logic or facts have nothing to do with this domination and control game.

Since the "things" going on in and with the Splitters MUST make sense, then those who are "having trouble making sense of that" must BE senseless, since it sure as HELL is not going to be any member of the "normal" group that is senseless.


The Trees of the Forest 

I live in a Community Full of Trees who have turned to each other and agreed together that there is no Forest. I am the only one, it seems, who can see a Forest. I perceived this Forest to exist also while in the Home Wood. The Trees in the Home Wood perceived my perception of them as warped and ridiculous, and my 'claim' that I saw those Trees as nothing but a bid for attention.
That is how the Trees know that I am stupid and/or crazy you see. That and the fact that all the Trees know that reality, is that, which is defined by majority vote. What the Majority votes into existence is obviously what is normal. What the majority vote against is abnormal. So there is no “Forest.” So say the Trees.



What would have happened if Neanderthal, certain that he represented all that was right, normal and complete in creation/evolution, had decided, and had the capability to; 'fix,’ modify and control Cro Magnon for his own good?




Would those of us with taller foreheads been understood to be suffering from severe birth defects and assumed to be too stupid to know it?



"A mobbing is like a tornado spun off from a spring rainstorm
- a fervent, collective assault that escalates from
an ordinary conflict."
-Kenneth Westhues
qtd. in "Mob Rule"
by John Gravois


“It is important for human beings to feel popular and well liked amongst a large group of human beings that we don’t really care for at all.”

Jerry Seinfeld

Schizophrenic Zen

 The people who are talking about us exclude THEMSELVES from the identification process regarding the people who we “think” are talking about us.  These are the same people who lower their eyes and talk out of the sides of their mouths as the means of rendering themselves invisible and inaudible when talking about us, from one to ten feet away. Having achieved this state of being through the use of the cloak of invisibility and the cone of silence, they then know they cannot be the people doing all the talking. They think it must be awful to have a disease that causes us to think people are talking about us and they are sure glad they don’t have an illness like that.

Don’t laugh. They will help us if you do.