Dysfunctional Realities


Regarding the 'Imbalance'

I believe there
IS an imbalance but it is not in the brain chemistry. It is in the psycho spiritual or metaphysical realm of relating. Human beings tend to protect and defend dysfunctional values and boundary violating behaviour as though their lives depended upon it. We love 'the devil we know' simply because we are used to it. It takes effort to change that and we will not win any popularity contests by doing it. We are so accustomed to having how we all LOOK and SOUND to 'others' as the top priority, defined as 'normal,' that we object to anyone who tries to state openly that how we ARE is twisted and self destructive. So rather than hear the truth, the majority engage in a contest with those 'others' who are 'not like us'  believing that the only way to preserve the group madness we know and love is to dominate all the 'others' who are as mad as we are for doing exactly the same thing!

Dysfunctional Power Struggle

Aggressor: Don't listen to HER! She is only SAYING I did that to seek attention.

Opposite side, rarely heard: Don't listen to HIM. He is only SAYING “don't listen to her,” to avoid having any unwanted attention focused on him.

Reality Switcheroo...

It is the difference between those who question authority, on the level of ideas, no matter WHO is representing authority, and who are perceived as inferiors for doing so..


Those who are loyal followers, who don't question authority, perceive compliance as a positive character trait, apart from context, while they focus on WHO is defining reality, not WHAT is being defined, and who are then perceived as superior for dong so.

Whhhaaatttt?!!! ...say those who feel like they just fell down the rabbit hole? Is THAT supposed to make some kind of sense"?

Superior people to one another: (eyes lowered, talking out of the sides of their mouths....)

"Those poor mental defectives...they have trouble making sense of things"... (amused eyes, little smirks..) "aren't you glad that you're normal and not sick like them?"

Whhhaaatttt?!!! You think to yourself because their "logic" is confusing you...are they JOKING or just PRETENDING to be stupid?????

Answer from Inferior one, speaking from a similar experience, now understood:

It is NEITHER of those. They are "hiding" in plain sight from an "inferior" (you) whom they have decided is not going to understand THEM anyway, since s/he is their "inferior." (tautology- their circular argument which APPEARS to explain, or more often, explain AWAY something, when it really just circles back on itself to its own starting point.)

Notice how the idea is TRUE but running in an opposite direction. You did NOT understand them did you? That is the nexus language of ambiguity. It is meaningless APART from the premise and context. So that what it means depends upon the information you have or don't have and an assumption of WHO understands "things" better without focusing on clarifying the "things" being understood. There is NO real communication in this type of thinking and there is none WANTED by those casting themselves in the role of the "superiors" either. For REAL genuine, direct communication would ruin their SELF definition. You can't 'get through" to people who think like this because they do not WANT to be gotten through TO. What you CAN do is talk about this thinking style and the group phenomenon that it generates, on THIS level if ideas. You can do that with each other, in public, in a cool clam and collected way, which will expose the dysfunctional group idiocy of it, which will dis-empower it. WHY? Because the LAST thing the "superior" people ever want is to be exposed as the idiots they really are. THAT is what will motivate THEM to give up their "game. Not "reason," not conscience, not guilt, but the SAME thing that motivates them to keep playing it; their own SELF interest. That is the ONLY thing that really appeals to them.

These ones always playing"the game" are the creators of chaos and confusion. They can "hide" their true agendas in that "confusion." All the better for THEM if their targets' "confusion" is seen by others as a self contained problem of the target, as their "inferior.'

Their own version(s) of "reality" constantly changes depending upon WHO they happen to be talking to at the time, for SELF promotion is their goal and often at other people's expense. They are also often the pictures of sincerity and act outraged and highly offended if anyone calls them on their "'game," just LIKE people who are, in FACT, accused falsely, so that no one can really tell for SURE, the difference between them and their "accusers," or who is whom. That TOO is part of their 'game.'

more coming on this one.......


The Trees of the Forest 

I live in a Community Full of Trees who have turned to each other and agreed together that there is no Forest. I am the only one, it seems, who can see a Forest. I perceived this Forest to exist also while in the Home Wood. The Trees in the Home Wood perceived my perception of them as warped and ridiculous, and my 'claim' that I saw those Trees as nothing but a bid for attention.
That is how the Trees know that I am stupid and/or crazy you see. That and the fact that all the Trees know that reality, is that, which is defined by majority vote. What the Majority votes into existence is obviously what is normal. What the majority vote against is abnormal. So there is no “Forest.” So say the Trees.



What would have happened if Neanderthal, certain that he represented all that was right, normal and complete in creation/evolution, had decided, and had the capability to; 'fix,’ modify and control Cro Magnon for his own good?




Would those of us with taller foreheads been understood to be suffering from severe birth defects and assumed to be too stupid to know it?



"A mobbing is like a tornado spun off from a spring rainstorm
- a fervent, collective assault that escalates from
an ordinary conflict."
-Kenneth Westhues
qtd. in "Mob Rule"
by John Gravois


“It is important for human beings to feel popular and well liked amongst a large group of human beings that we don’t really care for at all.”

Jerry Seinfeld

Schizophrenic Zen

 The people who are talking about us exclude THEMSELVES from the identification process regarding the people who we “think” are talking about us.  These are the same people who lower their eyes and talk out of the sides of their mouths as the means of rendering themselves invisible and inaudible when talking about us, from one to ten feet away. Having achieved this state of being through the use of the cloak of invisibility and the cone of silence, they then know they cannot be the people doing all the talking. They think it must be awful to have a disease that causes us to think people are talking about us and they are sure glad they don’t have an illness like that.

Don’t laugh. They will help us if you do.