Thinking Outside the

Psych Box

The Meta Issue 

Power, Control and Domination over Others,  as opposed to,

Self contained, Self actualization with Boundaries 

The world generally loves the power rush of the first without considering that what goes up too high must always come back down.


Philosophical Question for You
What if on a certain plane of human consciousness thought and communication actually existed on a universal and timeless level? How would that change our understanding of ourselves and of our overall existence?


Your Emotions Are Not Diseases
 They do not need to be eradicated. They are more like the brain’s OnStar system, used as guides to help you navigate your way through life. They signal you that something may be amiss and that there may be a better alternate route to take on your journey. It is up to you though, to LOOK at the map of your personal terrain and decide what may work better than the route you are currently following, in a way that will keep you from crashing and also avoid hitting anyone else along the way.


In Scandinavian research, ... mobbing is seen as an extreme social phenomenon, triggered by extreme social stressors, causing a range of negative effects, such as biological and psychic stress reactions.

Heinz Leymann

The Mobbing Encylopaedia




This is One of My Favourite Videos Recently

Take the time to Listen. It is about 45 minutes and expresses the long overdue need for great change in the awareness of those assessing and evaluating everyone elses.

Great job Prof. Mary Boyle, Glasgow


When Splitters/Projectors discover, to their utter amazement, that their targeted 'inferiors" know BOTH who they really are, as well as who they are pretending to be, their most common reaction to that is to find another "flaw" in their target... for KNOWING. They have to stay focused on invalidating their targets perceptions/reactions as that is the only way they can KEEP playing their self deluded "game." Deluding themselves that they are "superior' to their targets in understanding and/or worth, IS the point of playing their game in the first place. This is the Alpha and the Omega, the start and the finish, the premise AND the goal of dysfunction. Dysfunction is a closed system which goes to infinite dysfunctional relating.

A student here once asked another, "What is a closed system?" The answer she got was that there was nothing outside it. True, but I would like to add a bit of an amendment to that. It is more like, it is perceived from inside it to have nothing existing outside it. The only way OUT of a system like this, one defined as a ''game'' is to expose the game itself as a whole structure. That is because it is very hard to see or hear anything outside t from inside it. You have to be ABLE to see and hear the infinite loop you are trapped within to be able to get OUT of it.

It's the difference between finding the game ''amazing'' and finding the amazement of the participants, who never seem to be able to see BEYOND the parameters of the game itself, ''amazing.'' Both parties may be amazed, just not for the same reasons.

That is two different LEVELS of awareness. Those inside the game believe they are on the higher one and this belief is reinforced by group consensus which is also backed up by authority. Still, that does not make it true for in reality, truth is not something you can vote on.,

Open up to ''Possibility''- Part of the ''Human Potential Movement''

If it should tun out in the end, that you discover that all that two faced ''amusement'' and patronizing contempt toward me, is, and always has been, IN my awareness, and is, in,fact, just what my perceptions/reactions are based on, will you, who have perceived yourselves as ''hidden'' in plain sight from an inferior, be "moved", by your own "potential", to become open to the "possibility" of changing your OWN minds?

The Choice

The masses of followers cannot see the ''choice'' they are being handed is a choice between two losing sides of a totally destructive paradigm. They accept choosing between being:

winners OR losers,
superior or inferior,
in total control or totally controlled,
domination or submission,
sane or crazy,
normal or abnormal.
This is done with the categories for those on the right side of the division list being defined by those promoting their own positions on the left side of the list. In reality, this is validating the "winners" by invalidating those the self proclaimed "winners" have defined AS the "losers."

In reality, since BOTH sides of the choices offered are part of a losing whole, the choice they make isn't really a choice at all. It is just an illusion that all too frequently becomes a group delusion.

The real choice is quite different as it is a sick choice to divide or a healthy choice to "cure" what ails humanity, as a whole, and stop the "fission" that is destroying us all.

The real choices are:

winners/losers OR egalitarians
superiors/inferiors OR integrated peace makers
controllers of others/controlled by others OR self controlled.
domination/submission OR self directed
sane/crazy OR self actualizing with boundaries.
In other words it is a choice of the spirit of war (left side of list) OR a spirit of peace. (right side of list) On the left it's powerful/powerless, the real "bi-polar"disorder of of humanity as a whole, whether external or internal- a state of infinite war .

On the right it's personal empowerment, with boundaries which is a state of infinite being, with healthy detachment.

When we stop needing to be the 'winners' in life (or power struggles being fought till the death) by Trumping, the "losers", (you should pardon the current expression) who question or challenge "u,s" for our divisive "them and us" mind set, we may, eventually, (if we don't run out of time by destroying the whole planet first) actually reach the state of our collective being in which EVERYBODY wins. For in reality, either everyone is winning OR everyone is losing because in reality, it is cause AND effect which is a fact, not a choice, and not cause OR effect, which is the real fantasy world and a Splitter fabrication.


I Got Better Campaign-
REAL Hope  from the Psychiatric
Survivours Movement

What the Bleep Do We Know?

Another Perspective on Experience
Recommended for Psychiatrists and Psychiatrized
( as long as you are staying connected) . ..Alike
Should Quantum Physicists be 'helped'?

Logic Exercise
There are many platitudes and aphorisms used by humans as conversation or debate stoppers. This is one of my favourites of the idiotic concepts ideas.


"That is just the exception which proves the rule."


Dissect this statement in logical terms and explain how it is used as part of the splitting and defence group phenomenon of dysfunctional relating.

Everyone Was Just Shocked
Do you know why you are always “shocked” when a smiling, friendly, socialising type person in a position of authority turns out to be a serial killer? It is because you live in the same fantasy world that the killer promotes to hide himself. He is hiding behind the same mask; smiling, friendly, socialising authority who expects everything he says and does to be accepted without question. Any problem is thought to be in those who question him, and not in him, and/or in those who support and obey him. He is often the one he says ‘there is no ‘I’ in team’ because HE is the ‘I’ who is controlling the team.  

Question your assumptions and beliefs! 



To Comply, or Not to Comply? 

And is There Really a 'Choice'? 

This is called the practice of free speech which I am using here and which my democratic country claims to cherish and protect as a 'right.'

The system likes to pay compliant consumers who will promote the system at the same time that it invalidates and silences those who speak out against it. It is not at all uncommon that threats of further 'treatment' are used to silence the opposing viewpoint.

Have you ever noticed a common denominator in those who promote the system? Listen carefully to their personal stories and you will hear it, again and again.  By common denominator of course I mean other than the fact that they are often well known as writers, politicians, actors, sports figures, singers and other public faces.

Let's think about that for a bit shall we?

As one of my old elementary school teachers used to say, (while using “hand actions”) “Let's pull on our thinking caps!”