Let me tell you why.

As some of you cops like to point out, one of the common ploys of criminals is to claim to be the victim. They DO that because it creates doubt at to who is whom and creates confusion.

However, whatever anyone else may know or not know, the victim and the aggressor BOTH know who is whom, even if it can't be proven and even if the group and the bystanders don't know for sure, or think that they do know.

If you focus on exposing the "game" itself though, in its entirety, the perp. will not like it at all AND the victims will appreciate it.

Because?

To TRULY understand It is to dis-empower It.

(No one will want to "play the game" that everyone already KNOWS is a manipulative crock of shit.)

Many years ago, one of the people involved identified by those acting out as "he", had allegedly said to others, "She's looking for the third thing."

If you mean from the "drama triangle"? No.

I am the 4th "thing." The Converter: Aggressor, Victim, Rescuer, CONVERTER.

There ARE people on Earth who know it needs to be a Quadrangle.

I am the one who converts the premise, switches It BACK, turns the "breech-birth" ( another euphemism for Satan, or "the devil" or "The Source") around in my "psychic womb" so that he will be born head first, instead of ASS first. (Yuk Yuk)

There are many forms of symbolism that can be used to say the same things in terms of meaning. Pick your own fave.

So "Shifty" is the estian Shift

The dysfunctional "normal" (what the group votes on  as "normal") get rid of their own duplicity by projecting it onto those who can SEE BOTH sides of them and have the audacity to SAY so, right out LOUD. We are the ones who threaten the con artists. For the power of duplicity is threatened when it is pointed out to those who have not admitted/will not admit, it is there and that is it OBVIOUS.

"The Emperor has no clothes," states the "abnormal" child stating the obvious and who must be suppressed to please "authority."  Nowadays of course, he would likely get "diagnosed" with O.D.D. (Oppositional Defiance Disorder)

Nothing assures  a happy productive life like literally being labeled as ODD for questioning "authority" while still in your childhood. Something I once pointed out to the late Jean Harvey. "If you get them early eno8ugh they will never question anything.."

The Point

The bully operates from inside his own circular argument. The premise and the goal are the same thing and that IS: He is "proving" his "superiority" to himself. The distress reaction he gets from the target of his bullying IS the payoff.

Still, as the target, you can't choose to show distress, reason with the bully, OR say nothing as none of those will change anything. To the bully all of these possibilities as reactions from you, "prove" to HIM that he is "superior."

To break the "spell" and it is like a hypnotic induction, you have to talk about it, as a structure, on the meta level; just LIKE I am doing it right here and now. You do it this way so that the bully can see and hear, beyond any doubt, that his act is perfectly obvious and therefore definitely not "superior," since it is by no means "hidden" from anyone.

When they go low; you go high. Sometimes despite that, the bully succeeds for awhile longer. But it won't last. For the more people there are who recognize the "game" the less effective it will become until finally everyone just stops playing It. So go from the level of the relationship between you to the structure that includes BOTH of you.

Two Types of People Get It

(I have said THIS before too and had it defined by others as part of my "obsessing" about it)

That is because you see the opposite of "always right and never wrong" (estian concept) is "always wrong and never right."

The people MOST likely to "get It" are those who have had some similar experiences before, on one side OR the other.  The difference in what, and how, they get it, has more to do with motivation. Those who want to use It for power and control over others will keep their understanding a secret to keep It viable.

Those who want to help to keep the targets from being controlled by the first group, will shine a light on IT and shout it from the rooftops, so that the whole structure becomes visible.

Both sides of that know "It works"  BECAUSE it is kept concealed.  The rest of the trainees, the majority in fact, just don't get It at all.  That being the case of course makes them, just seeing themselves as being in a large group, all saying TOGETHER, "Huh? I don't get IT...what is THAT all about?"-  makes them "normal."

(as defined by group consensus) for one of the most common remarks heard from the group is, "It doesn't make any sense at all."

For they do not understand that "sense" has nothing to do with IT.

In reality of course, the one the controller and the controlled live in TOGETHER, it is understood by both that it is the obfuscation and the group support which is keeping It going in an infinite state of being/non being.

STOP the "game": not the people who TRY to TELL you about an experience of It that YOU deny exists. In THIS reality, saying "NOTHING Happened," EITHER denies It's existence, OR, Is a statement of It's power, depending upon your "perspective" on IT.

Power, Control and Domination IS the end game.

REVEALING that is the end OF "the Game."

As I have also said, 4,000 times before,  the goal in this is NOT resolution. The goal of the controller, is to PREVENT any real resolution from ever occurring. For if it is resolved, it just ruins all of his "fun." 

After all, he does it for the "recreation" of It.